WHAT TO DO WHEN HER PARENTS DON'T LOVE YOU?
WHAT TO DO WHEN HER PARENTS DON'T LOVE YOU?
Have you ever been in a relationship with a girl that you adore and that everything works perfectly, but that, only small problem: her parents hate you? If yes, or worse, if it is the case now, we know how much it can complicate the relationship, especially if your girlfriend is very close to her parents. A couple relationship can already be quite difficult in itself, if in addition you have this problem, this can turn out to be extremely discouraging. Be aware, however, that it is sometimes possible to rectify the situation.
Here are some tips and attitudes to put into practice now.
Be really sincere
Be honest when they ask you questions, you don't have to lie. Sometimes, if really necessary, you can just hide or embellish the truth, but don't lie. Show them that you really care about their daughter and that you two are serious.
Always be polite and courteous
We shouldn't have to remind you of this, but never forget to always see them and always speak to them with the greatest politeness. Besides, you should apply this in all areas of your life. Politeness is such a good quality!
Take an interest in them
Take the time to ask them questions and above all, listen to the answers. Then remember for the next time you see them. You can come back to the subject and thus demonstrate a real interest in them. They will appreciate it for sure.
Treat her like a queen
In front of his parents, at least! You don't always have to behave like this with your girlfriend, we all know that there is no perfect relationship. They too know it. But if they see that you make an effort, that you respect it and that you sincerely consider it, they will probably drop their guard after a while.
Do not overdo it
Although they have high expectations of you, they are not fooled either. If you are constantly exaggerating and seeming to be acting, they will not appreciate it at all. This comes back to the notion seen above of always being sincere. Yes, you have to put a little more, it’s still your blonde’s parents after all, but you don’t seem to be playing a game. You must try to stay as natural as possible, paying particular attention to your manners.
If despite all this they still hate you, then just avoid the moments when you will come across you. And if unfortunately it happens anyway, remember these tips and always put them into practice. In the long run, you never know!